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Normally I consider myself very lucky because I've always been able to fall asleep anytime and anywhere I want. On rare occasions, though, I'm unable to fall asleep due to thoughts that keep chasing themselves around and around in my head. This is one such time. I woke at about 4am to put the dogs out for a pee (I'm visiting my parents at the moment) and found that when I got back to bed I kept going over a conversation I had recently with my old girlfriend Julie. She maintained that there can be no such thing as an objective reality.

At first I thought she was talking about morality -- that cultures and morals are off limits and you can't say anything about another person's culture or morals. I've heard this a lot recently and think it is as disreputable and fruitless a line of thought as the cultural and moral chauvinism that it is a reaction to; it is fairly clear that cultures and morals can be good or bad. The most basic underpinning of morality is treat others how you'd have them you. In that respect most cultures and moralities leave an awful lot to be desired (including our own culture).

Anyway, it turned out that Julie was talking about more than cultural or moral relativism. She really meant that there is no objective reality. I thought she couldn't be saying what it sounded like. Julie has one of the sharpest minds I know (even though she does often fall prey to every nutty new-age belief that comes along). So I thought she must be arguing about the difficulty in coming to grips with the world because we have to see it through the filter of our senses and the distorting prism of our emotions.

Well, it turned out, no. She used the argument the other way around. She said that because of our sensory limits and our emotions coloring our perceptions there can be no objective reality. It took a while for me to get past the idea that she was miscommunicating her argument, but I realised in the end that she wasn't. She really believed that we create our own reality!

I've struck this kind of magical thinking recently in another friend (seems to be a lot of it going around). It is a case, once again, of people getting symbols mixed up with the things they represent.

We humans are amazing symbol manipulators. It is our greatest talent. Unfortunately, for many people, the symbols become so compelling they get them mixed up with the real things. But they are really only symbols. This is the beauty of the body of knowledge called science, and its wonderful sibling, engineering: they work to disentangle our perceptions and emotions from what we know of objective reality, and periodically recalibrate our symbols so that they can more usefully represent that reality.

Magical thinking, most superstitions, most religion, and much of what passes for philosophy -- all these things get the symbols and the reality mixed up. Often this has little effect and is relatively harmless, but when people get causality backwards (thinking that symbols can affect the things they represent), or people make moral decisions based on misreading symbols (the biblical mistranslation "thou shalt not suffer a witch to live" caused great suffering), or people think they can make the world work a particular way by holding a distorted view of reality in their mind, then we bring upon ourselves many of the worst ills humanity has plagued itself with.

There really is an objective reality out there. Two people can measure the electrostatic tug between molecules of water at a certain pressure and temperature and it will always be the same. You can split light into a spectrum that is always the same. If you add hydrochloric acid to sodium hydroxide you will always get heat and salty water. Diamond will always have the same hardness and graphite will always be weak, slippery, and shiny black.

Our greatest successes as human beings have been in understanding the objective reality around us. Recently we are coming to understand more and more of the objective reality governing how our own minds work too. We need to grasp these things rather than hiding away behind broken views of the world, because we have now become so numerous and powerful as a species we no longer have the luxury of getting it wrong. Magical thinking, superstition, religion, screwy morality, and rapacious culture can end life on this little planet.

Some of my friends are fond of saying that it is all science's fault (while they are wearing their polyester blend t-shirt, typing on their computer, in temperature-controlled comfort); that it would have been fine if we had left it all alone and kept to magical thinking, superstition and religion. They point to nuclear power stations and the bombs they create, the subtle poisoning from pesticide, the ecological damage wrought by high tech farming and fishing. But I say that these are examples of how much we need science.

Nuclear energy is a great example of misuse of science for screwy morality, and has little to do with anything but greed, power (as in having power over other people), and stupidity. This is something that properly researched science should make impossible.

Low tech farming and fishing were ruining the world already; science can give us ways to support ourselves without ruining the fragile web that keeps the biosphere alive. There are plenty of examples of ancient people influencing the weather and utterly destroying ecosystems -- it is what humans do everywhere they go. Science gives us a chance to see what we are doing before it is too late.

Wonder if I can get back to sleep now...?

Date: 2008-01-11 04:34 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dorjejaguar.livejournal.com
Hmm. Honestly I think I get what she's trying to say.
Being that there is no "objective". That's really a relative concept. Simply because we're all perceiving things through our own lens.
That's not to say we can't get together and share out perceptions and get a better idea of what that elephant reality looks like it's only that we are still viewing it and translating it through our personal filters and lenses.
Maybe such an absolute objective view exists but who would be the observer who can see such a thing without the filters and the point of view?
A buddha of some sort I guess. :)
Anyhoo, I think I get what you're saying *and* I think I get what she was trying to express too. Though I could be wrong. :)

I do think also that reality is infinitely manipulatable. I don't think that makes me superstitious. And I hope you don't either.

Date: 2008-01-11 01:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] miriam-e.livejournal.com
Yeah, that's what I thought she was trying to say too, but after I suggested we were really saying the same thing but simply approaching from different directions, she insisted that there is no single reality and that I was wrong. I was going to ask her how she could, in her lack of certainty about reality, be so certain that there was no single reality outside us :) but something intervened and the subject somehow didn't come up again. Jules is the greatest, but she gets her teeth into some pretty hare-brained ideas sometimes.

When you say "reality is infinitely manipulatable", if you mean that our perception of it can be altered any which way, then I agree. We can bring our perceptions more into synch with or more out of touch with reality, though that by itself doesn't affect external reality. Alternatively if you mean that we can change the world by building or destroying things, and that we do this in accordance with our (necessarily flawed) internal representations of the world, then once again I agree with you. However if you feel that simply the act of thinking about the world differently alters the substance of the world without having to do anything physical to effect those changes, then I would disagree. That would be called "wishful thinking" and throughout the thousands of years of human history nobody has ever made that do anything. I have a lot of friends, some of them very dear to me, who sadly believe this stuff really works, usually after going to the viral meme-fests propagated by so-called "life coaches".

I am the worst day-dreamer in the world. I know better than most that wishful thinking achieves nothing. :)

Date: 2008-01-12 04:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dorjejaguar.livejournal.com
Huh. I wonder why she thought that.

"if you mean that our perception of it can be altered"
Yes and..
"if you mean that we can change the world by building or destroying things"
Yes again and..
"However if you feel that simply the act of thinking about the world differently alters the substance of the world without having to do anything physical to effect those changes,"
Well no, not so much. I do think our thoughts and attitudes have a profound effect on the world around us (though even more so to our internal world) however if we're not allowing creation to move forward into embodied action then we're not following through, not finishing the creation.
Mulling thoughts over to decide which ones are worth committing to and investing in is alright though. If we jumped on every thought we had we'd be spastic wrecks. :)

Date: 2008-01-12 10:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] miriam-e.livejournal.com
Cool. :) I absolutely agree with you. Additionally, there are some weird advantages to going over things in your mind that you wouldn't expect. A study I read about some years ago checked out how golfers managed during winter when they couldn't golf. Some got to practice with indoor golf, some were asked to imagine practicing, and the final group were let to just ignore golf. When the season started up again it turned out that the group that simply imagined playing golf were almost as good at playing golf as those who'd practiced all year.The group who'd ignored golf during the off-season were very rusty. So there is some small use in day dreaming, though I don't really like to encourage myself as I am a hopeless dreamer. All my report cards from school said that I was very smart and a good student but constantly lost in a cloud. My nickname in my first job out of school was "The Cloud"

Date: 2008-01-14 10:55 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Relatively speaking, you're absolutely right.

Julie x

Date: 2008-01-15 12:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] miriam-e.livejournal.com
:)
heheheh

Date: 2008-01-15 08:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dorjejaguar.livejournal.com
Well you'll have a better idea what's good for you than I will so I'll not encourage you to anything but what you feel is best.
:)

I do know about that visioning thing they've tried on the athletes. Seems to help, I hear. Could be applied to just about anything. I suspect we apply it without knowing we're doing so naturally. :)

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